"I could have been this, I could have been that..."
"If not for what so so person did to me..."
"Peoples' actions made me to turn out this way..."
"I could have been a better person than what I am today, if not for this and that..." etcetera.
But...
How long will you remain like this? How long will you continue to blame people for who they are and what they've done to you?
How long will you let peoples action and inaction shape your life and turn you to who you are not?
Need I remind you that there is only ONE of your kind in this world....
You may be hurt, broken, wounded, betrayed, misjudged, disregarded by even the ones closest to you, the ones you never expect it from but will you continue to allow people create a fake you and disfigure and mold you to who you are not?
All these are bound to happen at some point because we are humans but don't forget that you are unique and special and you should not limit yourself because of everything you've been through...
QUIT THE EXCUSES and come out of your shell.
How long will you go into hiding? How long will you cry?
How much more do you want to change yourself so that you will fit into the imperfect image people are trying to mold you into?
How much more will you deprive yourself and the world of the Treasure and Beauty that lies inside you which you are yet to discover because of going into your shell or developing a sort of "defence mechanism" which you think will protect you from peoples action...?
You should know that people might act to you according to how they've been treated or lack of what they did not get...
"Hurting people hurt people" and someone that didn't know what true love is while growing might not really know how to give true love or know when you love truly...
Stop allowing people to define your life for you because at the end, you are left with the consequences of whatever choice you make, whether good or bad, people will not be there to bear it with you..
Take Charge and allow God to direct you and have the Final say over your life...
Don't forget you have a Manufacturer (YOUR CREATOR) and the Blue print and manual of your life is in HIS HANDS...
You may have been broken beyond remedy or misused, abused and shattered beyond repairs but I bring you good news today...
There is One whose Love for you is immeasurable, One who makes Something out of nothing, One who brings Beauty out of Ashes, One who Creates and can recreate and make you BRAND NEW because HE IS A REFINER...
GO BACK TO HIM, HE is waiting for you, take your broken pieces to Him and you will be surprised at THE WONDER HE will make out of your life...
JUST GO BACK TO GOD ALREADY, DON'T LET THE DEVIL CHEAT YOU ANY LONGER... SO COME HOME RUNNING, HIS ARMS ARE OPEN WIDE, HIS NAME IS JESUS, HE UNDERSTANDS, HE IS THE ANSWER YOU ARE LOOKING FOR, SO COME HOME RUNNING JUST AS YOU ARE
YOU ARE TOO PRECIOUS TO BE WASTED,
YOU ARE TOO VALUED TO BE DEVALUED,
LEARN TO DIFFERENTIATE THOSE WHO TRULY LOVE YOU FROM THOSE WHO HAVE SELFISH INTENTIONS TOWARD YOU...
Stop giving Excuses, BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE AND NOT THE WORST SOMEONE ELSE MADE YOU TO BE..
LEAVE EXCUSES ALONE, IT IS TIME TO BREAK FORTH DEAR...
SO SHINE BRIGHT INTO A WORLD THAT'S WAITING FOR YOUR LIGHT, LIFT IT UP, RIGHT NOW IS THE TIME...
TO ARISE AND SHINE
Great! No excuse for falling. Thanks so much for this article. More grace
@petteradey Thank God sir. Yes o... BE YOURSELF, YOU ARE ONE OF IT'S KIND.... You are Unique... Thank you sir.
Wow,,, God is helping you sis You're actually hitting the bull and so true.... In a nutshell, be YOURSELF don't let anyone be happy for turning you to what they want and suit them, "You are one of its kind"
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@blessing16632 Thank God ma.... True ma, no one is responsible for our failure or success... After all said and done, the ball is in your cut.. Don't give people the chance to control and play your life like a remote because of their actions.